Every wave carries the whole ocean
The tradition speaks of samadhi as though it belongs to another order of being entirely — to the sannyasi, the renunciant, the one with the correct lineage and the correct number of hours on the correct cushion. But the samadhis are not foreign countries. They are depths within the same ocean the seeker is already swimming in. This essay is an attempt to return the map to the hands that need it most.
No one tells you that awakening begins with loss — or that the separation from the Divine you spent a lifetime trying to cross was never real to begin with. This essay follows the full arc of awakening’s suffering: from the first crack in the ordinary world, through the long dark night and the furnace of dissolution, through the quiet of ash, to the recognition that stills everything: Tat tvam asi — That thou art. The distance was the love affair. The suffering was the One, loosening its own disguise. For the seeker who has known the fire — and for the one who is in it now.
The ego’s most sophisticated disguise may be the awakened teacher — speaking fluently of dissolution while quietly constructing an empire around it. And yet: I came to Sri Chinmoy’s teaching long before the contradictions became visible, and something in it genuinely moved me. The bhakti current that runs through everything I practice was, in part, awakened there. The Sufi tradition calls it baraka — blessing that moves through the teacher, not from them. A cracked pipe can still carry water. The water is not the pipe’s. And the seeker who was opened by a flawed transmission is not obligated to choose between honoring the opening and acknowledging the corruption. Both were real. Neither cancels the other. Numinous Waves on the merchant at the gate, and the seeker who outgrows the vessel.
This essay explores the profound longing for a deeper reality beyond everyday life, positing that this desire connects us to the inner worlds mystics describe. It suggests that one can access these dimensions through the hypnagogic state, meditation, and conscious awareness, revealing the interconnectedness of existence and spiritual truths in ordinary moments.
The soul doesn’t want to escape the body. It wants to stop being mistaken for it. The loosening isn’t morbid — it’s a form of coming home. The Loosening — now on Numinous Waves.
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